While you might think being nice to others and remembering to say thank you when someone says something nice or does something for you, it is equally important – if not more important to show yourself the same gratitude and compliment yourself on your body.
Really take a minute to think about when the last time you thanked your body for all that it does for you. Find a few quiet moments everyday to thank every part of your body from your hair to your toes. Thank it for doing it what it does and then take a few minutes to realize what your favorite parts of your body are and really embrace them.
In order to fully accept your body and embrace it, you must first realize that what you see in advertisements, movies and TV is not realistic. Not all women are born with body types that will allow them to be stick-thin. Remember that being healthy doesn’t necessarily mean you will be skinny, and the same goes the other way around.
There are three main body types: ectomorphs, mesomorphs and endomorphs. Understanding which one you are is the first step to fully accepting and loving your body. Ectomorphs in general have small frames with narrow hips and shoulders and are usually tall and thin. Mesomorphs have broad shoulders and carry most of their weight in the upper part of the body and endomorphs generally have more rounded shoulders and have a round appearance overall, and are more likely to be overweight. Genetics and predisposed body types cannot be changed, but they can be accepted and loved because they are what make you the wonderful woman that you are!
The following tips are positive ways to begin appreciating your body and embracing it.
- Exercise! Keeping active requires your body to be in motion and accomplish tasks, not only does this increase your positive energy, it also helps keep you and shape and helps you appreciate all that your body can do for you. Studies have found that engaging in exercise naturally increases the pride you have for your body.
- Compliment others. Complimenting other people has been shown in studies to help you see the good in yourself. Once you begin to compliment others regularly, you might see that you are more likely to start complimenting yourself!
- Gossip! And no talking badly about others is not what this means. It simply means when talking with your gal pals try avoiding talking about your bodies because this generally means talking about your body in a negative way –“I don’t like my hips, I don’t look good in such and such.” Find more fun topics to talk about.
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From SkinnyMom.com